Building a connected etiquette speech in verbal communication is a long process. This is the fruit of personal development as a result of proper linguistic, ideological, moral and aesthetic education and upbringing. The development by each teacher of his own program for systematic etiquette education will give great results, especially if parents participate in it.
Connected etiquette speech (CES) in preschool children occurs in terms of verbal communication with direct contact or orally, in the form of dialogue. Functionally, the CES is implemented in the form of a connected dialogical unity, consisting of replica-stimuli and replica-responses. In contrast to the usual dialogue, in which speech is produced, ready-made, “cliched” expressions or words-formulas of speech etiquette are reproduced in a connected etiquette speech.
The main goal of connected etiquette speech in preschool children is to bring harmony into their relationships, to provide the necessary mutual tolerance in communication. Verbal communication in kindergarten is carried out in a certain obligatory context, in which the etiquette associated with speech can and should be consciously studied by children in its functional dimensions in the act of verbal communication. Various thematic etiquette situations from the daily life of children are offered.
The study was conducted in a kindergarten in a small town in Bulgaria with preschool children. The children were offered play situations in which they had to use various types of etiquette forms.
The results of the study will be presented at a later stage of work on the problem, when creating a comprehensive Program of mastering unmarked connected speech by these children. The program will include both the provision of knowledge about individual subsystems of speech etiquette as sign systems and rules for their use, and exercises for their practical mastering using appropriate methods and means of constructing connected etiquette speech. Compliance with the rules of etiquette, in principle, presupposes their knowledge, but it would be naive to believe that, knowing the etiquette norms, the child will begin to act in accordance with them. Usually, he remembers them only when he violates them and thereby harms the interests of others. It can be assumed that one of the reasons for this phenomenon is related to the fact that we teach the rules, and not educate according to them.
In the course of the study, a number of conclusions and generalizations are made. Knowledge of speech etiquette ensures its functioning, or etiquette can be formed only through etiquette. This is the only way to build the belief that the use of speech etiquette has become axiomatic, as an obligatory component of interpersonal speech contacts. Etiquette verbal communication should become conscious, and this is possible only when conscious politeness becomes a habit, a norm of behavior.